Just like women, men do love attention. Men like to be noticed by women and they do like to be seen as attractive in the eyes of women. It comes as a shock to many people but it is the truth. Many people believe that it is only ladies that try to get a guy’s attention(well, you are wrong because men also try to get a lady's attention, particularly one they are interested in)
Men however, sometimes find it hard because they either try so hard or underperform while trying to make an impression. There are things women do that make them look unattractive in the eyes of men and however absurd it sounds, there are also things men do and they end up looking unattractive in the eyes of women.
Women may have beauty standards but men also have them, however dumb that sounds. The sad news is, many men have no idea at all about the things that women are more likely to feel attracted to and that is where they error. They tend to do directly the opposite, thinking it is attractive to the ladies, which is not always the case.
Whereas there are men who know exactly what to do to look attractive to women, there are some that don’t hence the purpose of this article. If you feel like there are a few things you have done but instead of looking attractive, you repel the ladies, that means there are a few things you are not getting right.
Below are the few mistakes men make and they look them look unattractive in the eyes of women;
What makes a man unattractive in the eyes of a woman.
Bad hygiene.
It is not only men that are irked by poor hygiene but ladies are too. This may sound weird but there are men out there who have the audacity to think that showering quite a number of times in a day is something that is meant for ladies! They believe that men are not supposed to be as hygienic as women (I wonder how that works when we all sweat!)
It makes matters worse when a man is athletic ( Oh God) If you are an athletic man then you should know the tones of sweat you release while working out, exercising or doing football practice. Why in the World would you choose not to take a shower?
When you have terrible hygiene, it looks very unattractive to the women because they are sensitive about cleanliness after all so If you really want to look attractive in her eyes, try to mind your personal hygiene.
Irresponsibility.
But who would feel attracted to a man who is irresponsible? Men that run away from responsibility are very unattractive because that simply means they are unreliable and they can not be trusted. Women feel more attracted to men who are trustworthy and men hey can rely on most especially when it comes to protection.
Not keeping promises.
A man that does not keep promises tends to look unattractive in the eyes of a woman. To women, men who keep their promises are trustworthy and reliable. She never has to doubt what he says because she definitely knows that he will come through, one way or the other. Who would not see such a man as attractive, huh?
Always complaining.
It is not only women that have the ability to nag. When you come across a man that is a pro at complaining, you will understand what I am saying. Men that love to complain about every tiny thing that crosses their paths are totally unattractive in the eyes of women. It is equivalent to a woman's nagging. Dear gentlemen, if you hate a nagging woman, you ought to know that men's complaining is twice as annoying.
Arrogance.
An arrogant man will never be seen as attractive to any woman. Instead of viewing you as an attractive man, she will conclude that you are rude so she will not even e able to stand the sight of you. No one wants to be close to an arrogant man, you know.
Lack of experience.
If you have had a soft life, trust me women in most cases will never see you as attractive. To a woman listening to a man going on about the things he has been through the hardships and the solutions he came up with is attractive. Even when he has not found solutions yet and is asking for her advice, she will be more than willing to comply.
I will tell you why. Whatever you face in your life shapes you and however you try to go about it defines you. This is what women look at so if you have no experiences, listening to you will get boring for a woman and she will not consider you attractive( why do you think ladies love broken men?)
Being cold.
Whoever told you that being cold means you are manly certainly did you a disservice. You can be manly and warm at the same time. The issue with men is that they have watched a lot of DC and Marvel and they are under the impression that women like bad guys better than the good guys. You are wrong.
There is a certain attraction that comes with a warm man because he has the ability to make a woman feel loved, cared for, understood and most importantly wanted.
Laziness.
Women are too attracted to Hard work to have a second glance at your lazy a**. This is not even debatable and it is rather self explanatory. Who doesn’t want a person that works hard, huh?
Violence.
If you are always picking fights on people, that means you have too much drama going on for you. Women find men like this quite unattractive. Women are more attracted to relaxed and calm men who do not always resort to violence to solve every little issue. If you go around punching every damn thing then I suggest you stop.
Frequently asked Questions
What makes a boy unattractive to a girl?
Being aggressive/bossy. A guy who's helpful in a stressful situation, like when you're working on a hard project or trying to build the desk your parents bought you, is a keeper. But when a guy thinks he knows best and it's his way or the highway — that makes us throw up in our mouths a little.
What makes a person unattractive?
A negative attitude is a very unattractive trait. If you are constantly saying something can't be done, passing off negative energy to the people around you, putting things and people down, making others look bad, and choosing to see the worst in every situation, you need to consider attitude therapy
What makes a guy instantly attractive?
We know, for example, that physical good looks, charm, and even wealth are some of the features important in making men attractive. However, over and above these factors, what else is it that makes men more attractive? Much research points to the way in which they behave around others as a major factor.
What is the most unattractive thing about a guy?
Some of the highest rated “characteristics” that women find unattractive in men fall under arrogance, lack of chivalry, boasting, video gaming, lying and being irresponsible.
What makes nice guys unattractive?
The reason nice guys tend to be unsuccessful with women is that, right off the bat, they tend be too smitten, too predictable, too available, too eager to please, and are often ready to rearrange their entire lives to accommodate the women they are pursuin
