Jose Chameleon’s estranged ex wife Daniella Atim chose life over status and walked away from the relationship everyone expected her to uphold until the end.
According to Daniella, it is always better to walk away from certain marriages that are meant to end your life instead of staying and trying to battle it out the rough way.
This time, while remembering everything she went through on her wedding anniversary, Daniella left a very strong message on her Instagram account. According to Daniella, she had forgotten her wedding anniversary since her earlier plan was to completely ignore it but her sister then brought it up in conversation with her.
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"It was my wedding anniversary a day ago and I didn’t even remember it until my sister brought it up as we were joking about random stuff. My initial instinct was to ignore it and not give it any attention but then I REMEMBERED.” She wrote.
Daniella recalled her life journey and how difficult it was living and being married to her ex husband Jose Chameleone. According to her, at that time, she searched for a straw of hope to hold on to, she hoped for someone to come out and be an example for her, to strengthen her and encourage her to walk away from her abusive relationship but no one turned up.
“ I remembered earlier on in my journey how much I needed the strength of someone who had already walked this before ,I remembered how much I needed to hear from another woman ,I remembered just how much I needed to see a woman who had risen above society and cultural expectations of what a marriage should be ,I remembered how much I needed to hear from another strong woman with a come back story ,I remembered how I needed to see another woman reach her prime after walking out of a toxic marriage .I remember wanting inspiration and strength from another woman to jump start a fire in me but there was non." She wrote.
Daniella says she finally stood up for herself and took her leap of faith. She states that she is now a perfect example of what a strong woman should be like and she would like others to use her as an example to take a leap of faith and run from any relationship or marriage that is draining them.
"And now that I am in a better position because I took that leap of faith ,now that the shackles are broken off my feet. I want you to borrow my strength ,I want you to look at me and know that there is life beyond society’s expectations, that there is life beyond your abusive relationship .I want you to use me as an example never to settle for a relationship that makes you dead while you are still alive ,I want you to remember that you are resilient because you are indeed resilient .And I want you to know that marriage is supposed to be your happy place and not a battle field. I want you to use me as your source of courage to never again let anyone determine what is and what is not acceptable. Just be a good person ….and be good to yourself first." She wrote.
